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How your friends make you fat—the social network of weight

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One of the big health news stories of 2007 was a study showing that your friends influence the size of your waist (and the rest of your body). Like any study, it raised as many questions as it answered, including  why this happens. A new study from Arizona State University looked into that question by testing three pathways by which friends might influence one another’s body size: source Collaboration.  Over time, you might start to share the ideas of the people close to you after talking with them about what the proper body size is. Then you might choose your food and exercise habits in order to reach that body size, whether that means eating more food to look like your plus-sized friends, or less food to look like your thin ones. Peer pressure.  You feel bullied into trying to look like your friends and family members. They make you feel bad about your body, so you go about eating and exercising to look like them. Monkey see, monkey do.  You change your habits to mirror those of your

Why your friends don't want you to lose weight

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Every group of friends needs a 'fat one'. Craig Morris explains how to make sure it isn't you source The Goonies had Chunk, Take That had Gary Barlow, the college fraternity of Robot House from Futurama had Fat Bot and your mates have, um, you. Sorry, but it seems to be an unshakeable cliché that every group of friends needs a Fat One; someone to be the lovable, chubby butt of all the pie jokes; to make the other members of the group look and feel slimmer in comparison. So what happens when you decide to lose weight and decide you no longer want to be that person? The people you work with, live with and socialise with can have a huge impact on your weight loss, because they have the power to inform everything from your diet and fitness regime to your self-esteem. This can be a real positive if they’re cheering you on, but the danger arises when this power is wielded irresponsibly. As Men’s Health Forum editor Martin Tod puts it, “Men are less likely to recognise that they’r

The “Friend Diet”: How Your Social Circle Can Help You Lose Weight

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Did you know that if your two best friends are fat, you’re 150% more likely to be fat, too? source Obesity spreads like a cold or the flu. The Framingham Heart Study–data on the health and well-being of people in the town of Framingham, Massachusetts, spanning three generations back to 1948–shows that people with a friend who became clinically obese were 57 percent more likely to become obese, too. Astonishingly, you don’t even have to  know  someone to be influenced by them. In Framingham, people whose friend’s got fat were 20 percent more likely to gain weight, too! The research–by Harvard’s Nicholas A. Christakis and UC San Diego’s James H. Fowler, authors of “Connected: The Surprising Power of Our Social Networks and How they Shape Our Lives”–shows the powerful influence of social networks on our health. What–if anything–can you do to ensure the social influences shaping you are healthy ones? Join a group of Active People.  A walking group, a sports team, even a gardening club–all

6 Awkward New Things You Deal With When Losing Weight

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Losing weight is great, especially when you’ve been wishing to do for most of your life and you’ve finally done it! The journey of weight loss and better health is an amazing one to travel, but it doesn’t mean that there aren’t a few bumps along the road. Many of the bumps aren’t so much from the weight loss itself, but from the emotional ups and downs that many people don’t anticipate. Those emotional “downs” aren’t something that we expect to deal with along the weight-loss journey; our assumption is that successful weight loss equals 100 percent pure pleasure… which I found is not so true. source Below are a few of the emotional issues that I dealt with while I was losing my weight: Analysis of everything you do . No matter where I was or what I was doing, people wanted to know exactly “why” I was doing it. If they saw me at the grocery store, they would examine the cart’s contents and ask why I selected each item. If I was walking, a neighbor would often stop me to ask how far and

New Life After Losing Weight – Dealing With a New Slim Body

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When you lose weight , you may (and probably will) have different likes in certain things than you ever did before you lost the weight. These different likes mostly pertain to certain clothing, or even certain lifestyle activities such as going out to bars and drinking, or going out to fast food restaurants. All of these new changes can take a toll on your life and can even cause you to forget who you are. But that’s okay, and it’s nothing out of the ordinary. All you have to do is just start over again, basically from square one, and it may seem hard at first, but it is doable. source In reality, you are a brand new person. People who lose weight might forget who they are sometimes because they’re now able to dress differently, and even wear anything they want, unlike before they lost the weight when their choices were more limited. They may get compliments they never heard before, and may or may not know what to do with them, or how to take them. Most importantly, they’re now making

What’s So Healthy About Avocado Oil?

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It doesn’t take much digging to figure out that most of the oils we eat in this country are fantastically poor choices. There’s the heavy processing to consider as well as the GMO sourcing, the rancidity, and dramatic omega fatty acid imbalance to name a few unsavory points.  source Sure, we make different choices in our own kitchens, but sometimes we find ourselves wishing we could recreate a certain taste in a Primal version of an old favorite recipe or just find a better flavor in one of our new favorite Primal meals. As a result, even the most Primally devout among us are on the lookout for the healthiest choices with the right practical adaptability. (And, oh yeah, good taste…) In the interest of relishing our food while respecting our bodies, we hunt down lesser appreciated alternatives. Plus, there’s just something fun about undermining the status quo to support worthy culinary underdogs. One of the great “finds” of my Primal journey has undoubtedly been avocado oil – a little r

20 Tips that Could Help You Lose Weight for Your Wedding

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There's nothing like an engagement ring to motivate a woman to get serious about weight loss. The dress. The photos. The honeymoon! You're dropping lots of cash for a fabulous event and will be standing with your butt—er, back—to dozens, maybe even hundreds of guests during your ceremony. With so many wonderful things happening on your special day, who wants to worry about their rear view? source It's no wonder women go to great strides to look their best on their wedding day. And if your upcoming wedding is serving as inspiration for you to tackle your weight or fitness issues, that's great. We all need to find our motivation, and a wedding has a deadline that can inspire you to take action. Problem is, many brides-to-be resort to extreme measures and quick fixes to drop the pounds quickly. Some of those methods may work a little (even if they're not so safe or healthy), but often times they fail—miserably. That's because quick fixes, diet pills, and extreme ex

Lose Weight Before You Date? Ain’t Nobody Got Time for That

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If you’re holding off on dating until you’ve lost the weight, bought better clothes, or are a brilliant future version of yourself, you’ve set the worst goal ever. Because it’s not a goal. It’s a slippery slope defined by — what? An arbitrary number on the scale? The day your bangs grow out? Until you’ve achieved an unassailable state of self-love? source In the immortal words of Sweet Brown, ain’t nobody got time for that. You’re not an Apple product set to launch sometime next year. You may think you’ll be shinier, cooler, or more desirable in the future, but really what you’re saying is that you don’t think anyone could like you now. You think you’re planning. But you’re really just procrastinating. A woman named Jen wrote to ask me if she should stop dating until she achieved her goal weight. She was admittedly on the heavy side but had never kept it a secret or masked it in her online profile. She didn’t mince words, and neither did some of her respondents. She got some messages a

Why Your Friends Can Be Bad For Your Weight

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Being overweight is often viewed as a failure of personal responsibility. source “She just hasn’t tried hard enough.” “He eats too much sugar and he knows it’s bad, but he won’t give it up.” “Gosh, she’s reeeeally let herself go.” While personal habits are part of the weight-loss equation, the idea that they’re the  only  factor is misguided. “The notion that we are somehow islands when it comes to our weight simply isn’t true,” write Walter Willett and Malissa Wood in  Thinfluence: The Powerful and Surprising Effect Friends, Family, Work, and Environment Have on Weight. As hormonal and other physiological changes in midlife make unwanted pounds easier to put on than take off, it is important to remember that many other factors come into play, including how much money you make, local and national politics, the ubiquity of fast (and often unhealthy) foods, even the design of many homes (think of how many contemporary dining areas are outfitted with, or adjacent to, a television — a dist